I Mustache You A Question

I recently posed a question to my fellow female population on facebook. I asked,"Is it alright for guys to grow mustaches? Yes or No?" Not surprisingly, a lot of ladies said no way Jose! Some of the most popular answers included:

1)It reminds me of my father

2)no

3)multiple no's

4)staches=creepy

*I would like to put a disclaimer in that even though I feel some guys look handsome with mustaches, my vote is for the clean shaven. NOTHING is better than a boy with a freshly shaved face. Soft, handsome, and pleasant to kiss make my vote=clean shaven..*awww:)*

Due to the popularity of responses I decided to give everyone a play by play on how I analyze the [mustache].

1-I instantly judge the quality of the stache. Is it full and thick or does it look patchy and sickly? There are a few boys I've seen who can pass this first step of analysis however, when most of the guys I've seen try to grow a mustache it looks like this:

It seems to be the general consensus that if you can't grow a nice mustache, you probably shouldn't be growing one at all.

2-I then analyze how the guy looks with the mustache. Does the mustache fit him? Does it add to his being handsome? Is it such a beautiful piece of facial hair you think, "this really adds to his manscape?" I did a little research on google images and I found some pictures that I wanted to share. Some guys should just grow mustaches. end of story. e.g.,:

You have to admit, this man doesn't look half as scary without that creepy little stache perched on his upper lip. Hitler, probably should've never went stache-less. Although your actions made you a D.B., your hairless face makes you look like an even bigger D.B. This man was a comic pioneer and an icon we all know and love. However, I'll be the first to admit he looks way better with a mustache. This could possibly be because of the black and white films he was in and the mustache added contrast on the screen. Either way, Charlie gets a thumbs up for his stache.

3-Last, I ask myself, "Is that mustache B.A. and does it make the boy who is wearing it a B.A.?" Is the mustache unique? If so, does it fit the person who is wearing it and more importantly, can the person pull it off? This guy went on the mustache ledge=the 'old timey' in present day. This is very hard to pull off, but if done correctly and on the right guy, this mustache can look pretty B.A.

This guy took his manstache to a whole new level and committed a mustache mishap. Clearly, this man is not pulling off this dangerous piece of facial hair. Leave this for the sensei in Kill Bill vol. 2.

No matter the results of my rigorous testing procedures these guys can pull off the stache and do it damn well.Mark Spitz. Olympic swimmer extraordinaire! Yea, that thing probably caught drag, but it didn't matter because he was just that good. Mark Spitz I salute your stache.

Freddie Mercury, you handsome devil you, you had the voice of angel and you not only rock, but you rock the stache well my friend. Fred Mer, I salute your stache.
Well trimmed, full, and quite possibly one of the most sexiest men alive, Ronnie B knows how to grow a stache. For this, I salute you and your stache Ron Burgandy..Keep, classy you sexy best, keep it classy!

Ok, so here are my final thoughts about the [mustache].

1-It depends on the boy and his growing ability

2-It depends on your personal preference [do you like guys with mustaches]

3-Does the person matter more to you than the facial hair?

4-Mustaches do get better with age [someone made a good point about this]

5-Can you picture kissing the guy who has a mustache and or will it creep you out if you have to? [Like I said, one of the most popular answers was 'it reminds me of my father' coming from a home where my Dad had a mustache for the first 14 years of my life this might take a bit of getting used to]

*Girls, if your boyfriend or significant other decides to grow a mustache, remain calm and do not panic! Try to talk him down and if that doesn't work let him grow one because he means that much to you. It does need to be clarified upfront however, that if the mustache does look bad, that you have full teasing privileges until the said mustache is shaved or by some miracle grows in more.*

Well there you have it! The mustache do's and dont's! Mustache or not make sure the boy behind the facial hair is worth it. If he is, what's a little manscaping guidance going to hurt?

Has anything you've done made your life better?

You all know who she is right? Why this is a Fairy Godmother. The person or magical being that supposedly comes into your life and makes everything better with the wave of a wand. I don't know if there's an increase of wishful thinking or if facebook just makes that wishful thinking more viewable by the public, but it seems more and more these days people complain about their lives yet do nothing to make them better.

I don't think people understand that happiness isn't something everyone is given. It's not like when we're all born someone waves a wand over you and says, "Well you'll be granted with happiness for the rest of your life." No, that's not the way it works. YOU HAVE TO WORK TO BE HAPPY! Being happy, finding happiness, is a proactive task.

I understand everyone goes through trials and tribulations and that some times we need to vent but when I start to not care is when that's all you do. There is a quote from American History X that I love and it goes a little something like this:

"There was a moment, when I used to blame everything and everyone for all the pain and suffering and vile things that happened to me, that I saw happen to my people. Used to blame everybody. Blamed white people, blamed society, blamed God. I didn't get no answers 'cause I was asking the wrong questions. You have to ask the right questions.

Derek-Like what?

Sweeney-Has anything you've done made your life better?"

So now I ask you, if you're having a hard time and if life has dealt you a bad hand, what are you doing about it? Have you tried to get better? Have you tried to get happy? Or are you letting the negative events surrounding your life become the life you live? There is always one person you can ALWAYS depend on 100% in this life and that is [yourself]. Reaching goals, working hard, going to school or getting up and going to work every day, being a single parent, losing a loved one, going through a break-up, or losing a home etc. isn't always fun. Life isn't always going to be fun. It's how you react to situations that are beyond your control that define who you are. These things are black holes we get thrown down into and by not doing anything about it, by not at least TRYING to climb back out says to me that you're content living alone in the dark.

Anything and everything works when trying to get happy. Do what works best for you! BUT DO SOMETHING! For awhile you might feel your attempts are futile, might feel like it's not working, like it's not worth it but keep working and keep trying! I always live by the "fake it until you make it" policy and it hasn't steered me wrong yet. You try so hard to go out of your way to do nice things for yourself and do things to make yourself happy eventually you're going to forget you're trying at all and just accept it as the life you're leading.

It's almost the new year and unfortunately you aren't going to be visited by a fairy godmother on midnight who will make all your wishes come true. You will however, be visited by someone who can make all your wishes come true [and that is the brand new you]. This year make all your hopes, wishes, dreams, and desires come true. You can't think of a New Year's resolution? Here's one [be happy, WORK on being happy].

Here's a list of things I do to make myself happy:

1-Get out of the house (sitting around feeling sorry for yourself is probably the worst thing you could do to [you].

2-Put nice things on your bathroom mirror (so every morning or every time you use the restroom you can look at the mirror and be reminded of things you forget).

3-Thought of the Week (write a thought of the week and some main points to remember it e.g., this week you're going to do one nice thing for yourself a day and three reasons why that's a good idea. Hang this up and look at it every day).

4-Splurge. Some times we just need some comforting whether you're really girly and go out and buy clothes or like me and hit up Amigos and get a Velveeta Burger and fries do something that gives you a little bit of that guilty satisfaction.

5-Rely on friends (I'm not saying complain to them every day or every time you talk about the same thing-because they're going to get tired of that-I'm saying go out with your friends, invite friends over for dinner, invite them over for a movie, go play catch at the park-spend time with them).

6-Throw all your energy into something. Create goals for yourself. Don't have a job? Not going to school? No wonder you're in a rut all you have time to do is to sit around and think about why you're in that rut. Get busy and get motivated! Set goals for yourself because when you reach them it gives you all the confidence in the world! No one can give you that. Do something with your time and life.

7-Sing in the car or at your computer or in the shower or where ever you choose to (this may sound silly but it ALWAYS puts me in a better mood).

8-Before you go to bed at night say 5 things you're thankful for either out loud or in your head. When everything seems wrong it's important to remember what's going right.

9-Accept the bad events in your life for what they are and demystify them by trying to learn from them (I believe God does everything for a reason, we may not know why currently, but we can help ourselves and help his hard work along, by trying to learn the lessons he's teaching and do it better the next time).

10-The next time you go to complain about your life I want you to think of someone who is worse off (because remember, there is ALWAYS someone with darker battles than yourself and you should be thankful you have the problems you do have).

If I were a fairy godmother before I waved my wand, I'd make sure you were someone who deserved a little magic. If you've never done anything to help yourself, then why would you expect others to? (Something to think about).

Before I Die

I was pinteresting today (surprise surprise) haha and I kept seeing these "before I die" pictures. It really got me thinking about what I wanted to do before I do so here's my list.

1.Ok, so I'm starting my list off with something that's pretty cliche' BUT I'VE ALWAYSSSS wanted to do this! From about the time I was 8 until I was 16 years old I wanted to be a Marine Biologist and when I was getting numerous rejection letters from Grad Schools last year I looked up the requirements to be a dolphin trainer at Sea World. It's always been something I wanted to do and one day I hope I get the chance!:)

2.Ok, so thanks to The Notebook what girl doesn't want to do this? I'm a sucker for all things romantic. I am a hopeless romantic through and through and there is nothing I would love more than having such a special moment as this. So simple but so perfect. It'd be something I remembered for the rest of my life.

3.I can't wait until I have a nice income and I can do nice things for myself like travel! I've always wanted to go to Ireland! I want to witness the beautiful Irish landscapes, enjoy some great beer at a local pub, and stay at a quaint bed and breakfast! Look at that castle, absolutely gorgeous! Can't wait for this trip haha

4.Ok I'd just like to start out by saying that I promise I'm not materialistic haha. I'd much rather love the boy or person behind a piece of jewelery then care about the piece of jewelery itself but I love the whole romantic ambiance surrounding Tiffany & Co. I was enchanted from the moment I watched Breakfast at Tiffany's and just love the whole feeling their jewelry embodies. I have a fake Tiffany's heart necklace that I bought in China Town when I visited New York city when I was 17 and I love it. I look at it and pretend it's real hahah. Just the thrill and sheer excitement I'd have when someone place that beautiful little blue box in my hand would be something irreplaceable!

-my later in life bucket list

5.I am the biggest believer in true love out of anyone I know. I believe true love does exist and I believe in marriage and choosing to spend the rest of your life with someone. I know the day I get married will be one of the most beautiful days of my life. I don't know when I'll get married. It might be within the next ten years or maybe the next twenty, all I do know is that when those doors open and I see the love of my life standing at the alter my heart will have felt a joy it's never experienced. I hope he looks at me and thinks "how lucky am I to get to spend the rest of my life with her.." So wonderful to daydream about that moment. Plus when I get scared at night in my bed I plan my wedding HAHAH.

6.This is one of the moments in my life that I'm looking most forward to. My dad is my very best friend and one of the only people I've met on this Earth that understands me and all of my complexities. This will be such a special moment for me that I will carry in my heart forever and continue to carry even when I go to heaven. I can't wait to look my father in the eyes and tell him, "Dad, I know no one will ever love me as much as you do, but I want you to know today you are giving me away to a beautiful man who is everything I deserve."

7.Now, don't think I'm jumping the gun here...this is a long way off (sorry Mom-Lisa is baby CRAZY right now) haha but eventually I would like to be a mom. Being a mom I feel, is probably one of the greatest gifts I could ever experience in this life. My dad told me that everything changes, your whole world changes when you have children (and that you won't understand it until you do). I have never lived through an experience that has impacted my mind, body, and soul that much-getting to, would be such a special gift. I hope I'm a good mom and give my children parents like I had. They did so much for me, I have so much to continue to pass on. Being a mom, having a family, and a home will be the happiest days of my life.

Prince Charming

We all wait for him...we all dream about him...and most of the time we're just plumb disappointed that when a boy showed up [that he wasn't him]. I'm talking about Prince Charming. A lot of times girls complain about the type of boys they meet (and how most, aren't very good guys). Well, since I am also one of those girls (the ones that complain about the lack of decent men) I decided to give credit to a few boys I know who are my real life Prince Charmings. Some I know really well, some I've only just met, but they have impacted my life and shown me what a true life Prince really looks like.
The first boy on the list is my best friend Kyle. I met Kyle when I was five years old in Mrs. Allen's kindergarten class:). This boy was my Valentine every year from kindergarten until fifth grade! He would carry my punch for me, go out for birthday dinner to the Steak House with me (my parents told me I could invite one friend and I always chose Kyle), and helped me up after I drunk fell walking back to house on his 21st HAHAH. Note, I said his 21st not mine HAHAH. This boy has achieved so much in his short 22 years here on this Earth and is someone who is very driven. He will be a wonderful Physician's Assistant and I can't wait to witness what his bright future has in store for him. He pushes me to be a better person and student. He is someone I am very proud of! Prince #2 on the list is Kyle! Love you Kyle! You are such a great guy, don't ever forget it!
The next boy on our list is my best friend, and big brother, Andrew. I met Andrew my first year away from home and from that moment on (after he told me he liked my Led Zeppelin shirt) I knew we'd be great friends. He is marrying my best friend Jamie this summer and I cannot wait to witness their beautiful wedding. The dedication he has to her is something I want to hold out for when waiting for a relationship. He is always there for me to offer advice and remind me of what I deserve even when I can't see it myself. He has always stood up for me and he's great at guitar hero. My favorite parties are the ones I've been at with him and I miss him and Jamie very much. They were two of the best people and friends I ever made in college and he didn't even get mad at me when I barfed down the side of his new car on my 21st:) Love you Andrew! Here's to Margarita Madness, too much tequila, being hung over and eating at Chello's, and being a good friend to me! Thank you so much for everything! (flash-foward a few hours after this photo was taken and you get me barfing down the side of his new Durango:) hahah Prince Charming #3 is Andrew!
The next boy on the list is my best friend Kelly. I've been friends with Kelly for about a year now, and I think it's safe to say we'll be friends forever! He likes Star Wars, drove all the way to Kearney for my 22nd birthday party, and is someone who is always there for me. This boy has such a kind heart and is such a loyal friend to everyone in his life who calls him that. He is a hard worker and is always there when you need a good laugh (even if it's you laughing at him for burning his ass -literally burning his ass) HAHAHA-Kel, you should probably watch where you sit next time! Kelly has such an amazing soul and I know one day he'll make one girl very, very happy. If there is any guy I know that deserves to find an amazing, beautiful, girl..it's Kel. All of the good he's done will come back round to him and when he does find that special someone my heart will be overwhelmed with happiness for him! Thanks for everything you've done for me Kelly. Can't wait to see you over break, play some Star Wars in your new gaming chair, and shoot your Nerf gun:) Love you! Prince Charming #4 is Kelly!The next boys on my list are my boyfriends Reginald and Taylor. I met these boys this summer when I worked at the pool and even though I only got to spend a short three months with them, they filled my heart with enough happiness and memories to last me a lifetime! The night before I moved to Nebraska these boys took me outside and as I was standing on the front steps this is what they said to me:

"Katie we want you to know you are amazing and deserve the best boyfriend in the world. We want you to know until then, we will be here for you always. We want you to know that gay, witty, Taylor and straight hung like a horse Reggie (hahah I just took their word on this I don't actually know this hahah) combined, make you the perfect boyfriend. We got you these chocolates, this CRAZY STUPID LOVE poster, and this picture frame as a going away present. Reggie-we couldn't figure out how to print the picture off we wanted (something about the printer being broke) so we figured you could put a picture in here. Obviously your dream guy isn't very tech savvy hahah."

This will be a memory I carry with me always. These boys weren't actually my real boyfriends but I don't think I've ever had a boyfriend say something that special to me. It was just so caring and at a time I needed it most. I'm so excited to see what the future has in store for these boys because good things happen to good people [ and they are such great boys]. Thank you both for everything this summer. I love you two:) Prince Charming #5 and #6 on this list are Reginald and Taylor!
The last boy on my list is someone I've just met. His name is Gage. I met Gage (officially met him) on the Wednesday before Thanksgiving. Needless to say, despite my original plan, I had a little too much to drink. This boy helped me up after I fell while dancing (and continued to dance with me even after that) when most boys probably would've just walked away due to embarrassment. I had the pleasure of going to dinner and spending an evening with this boy and that night as I laid down to go to sleep I told myself, "Katie, even if you never get another chance to see this boy ever again....your faith has been renewed and at least you know that boys like that do exist in this world (and you should feel extremely lucky YOU got to be the girl to go to dinner with him). Gage is a hard worker, has a kind heart, and is a total gentleman. No matter how things end up, no matter if I never get another chance to go to dinner with him again, I feel blessed I got my one shot. I will always hold so much respect for him and the girl that ends up with him is one lucky bitch:) HAHAH Prince Charming #7 is Gage!:) (yeah, even through the mounds of liquor I some how didn't remember consuming that night--my smile was that big because even though intoxicated I could tell this one was a gem!)

Well there you have it! Here's to the boys that are our best friends, the boys that take us fishing and to the drive inn, the boys that are there when our hearts get broken, the boys that have light saber battles with us. Boys who bring us flowers on a date, the ones who open car doors, and the boys that exist in this world to remind us that they aren't all bad! I want to thank everyone on this list for some how being one of those things for me! I might complain about boys a lot but I also want you all to know that you are in a class all your own. Thanks for lighting that flame of hope for all of us girls who've forgotten what it's like to know boys like you!

-Katie

"Your face looks fine, but someone needs to put a bag over your personality."

Yes, this is an add for makeup but I think it supports a very valid message.

Pretty is only half of an equation. There was a quote I read today:
"Your face looks fine, but someone needs to put a bag over your personality."

Please, please be a good person. Not only to others but most importantly [to yourself]. Don't sell yourself short. Don't make decisions that lead to this. If you don't respect who you are then no one else will. Respecting yourself means many things:
Don't say bad things about yourself
Do things that make you happy
Put up nice pictures or quotes (beautiful things to wake up to)
Look in the mirror and say one nice thing about yourself every day

It is also important and so essential for the health and beauty of your soul to be a good person. Some things you can do to maximize this are:
Do nice things for others
Do one good deed a day (or at least try to especially if the opportunity presents itself)
and...
Go out of your way to make someone else's day

Boys might be attracted to your looks but it's going to be your personality that they fall in love with. People might judge you the first time they meet you, but it's after they get to know you, that makes them decide whether you're worth being some one's friend or not. In a society plagued by media it's easy to contend that looks are most important when really, it's the type of person you are that matters most (at least in my eyes).You could be the most beautiful woman in the world and the most cruel simultaneously. A pretty girl isn't that pretty once you discover how ugly her heart is.

I think kindness is something that is very underrated in today's age. Kindness is one of the best gifts you could give to someone, especially someone who hasn't had many favors. Put your pretty into action-be kind-be bold-do something special for someone -THAT makes you beautiful.

There have been times when I've questioned how pretty I was on the inside. Times when I felt quite ugly on the inside. No matter how hurt you are, how alone you feel, or how desperate you perceive yourself to be..NEVER, never lose sight of the person you want to be. Never lose sight of your beauty. Be the most beautiful you always. Bad times will come and go-but that will be something that will always remain.

To all the girls that rely solely on how they look on the outside I hope you realize we all turn forty. We all have looks that fade, and when I have a belly from baring children, wrinkles under my eyes and gray hair from those said children...I want to sit on a porch swing, drink sweet tea, look at my husband and know that he loves me with his entire heart versus sitting at a glass table in some legal office, signing divorce papers, looking at my husband thinking you found someone younger and prettier.

Lasting relationships, friendships, etc. last because people love the person you are. They love what you bring to the table. If you're just a pretty face missing the beautiful heart what's so special you're bringing to the table? Pretty faces are a dime a dozen originality is where it's at. How boring would it be to hang out with someone who was just good looking? Screw that. I want to laugh, I want to drink too much, I want to dance like a fool, and meet strangers. Not sit at a table and look pretty. It's overrated and boring.

Remember, be one OF a million not one IN a million. Don't just be pretty, be beautiful. When you have a kind heart, it shines through. Let your beauty be seen. Beautiful people with amazing souls don't go unnoticed for long. Make a difference no matter how small-----because beauty knows no limits.

The Great White Buffalo

I assume everyone knows what this term means but for those who don't I'm about to lay this out for you.

The term 'Great White Buffalo' refers to the ultimate being. The boy or girl you dream about, the one you create in your mind, the person you wish you could find but think only exists in your thoughts and prayers.

Whether or not you ever find this mystical being, I think it's important to have one. Not so that you hold on to unrealistic hopes and desires, but to hold on to the ones that are. As you get older there are certain things you look for in a partner. We grow up, our priorities change, and we discover what is important to us when looking for someone to enter into a serious relationship with. It is important to have a White Buffalo so that you are aware of important things-the big things that matter to you in a relationship (things you shouldn't have to sacrifice).

Will you ever find someone that exactly matches your ideal image of the 'White Buffalo'? Who knows, maybe you will, maybe you won't. The important thing is that you never forget what you deserve. That you never forget it even if you are lonely or sad.....or are doubting yourself. It is important YOU ALWAYS, ALWAYS remember what you deserve and never settle for any less.

If you have to break your rules for someone or if it feels wrong, chances are it is. It is hard being alone sometimes and feeling like you are carrying the weight of the world on your shoulders without anyone to just hold your hand, but struggling through that alone is better than being with someone who doesn't deserve you [every time].

There comes a time when you have to let go of the past and be strong for yourself (even though it might be hard), to receive the gifts of the present. By holding on to the farm cow that is your ex boyfriend or girlfriend you could be missing out on the god that is your future White Buffalo. Let us not forget there are several shades of white. Eggshell Buffalo....Ivory Buffalo...Antique White Buffalo...the list goes on and on. It might not be the perfect shade of white, but it just might be 'your' perfect shade of white.

Keep that heart strong, open, and determined. Never let it become a stranger and always know what it holds. Only then will you be reminded of and know what it deserves.

Higher Pleasures

John Stuart Mills' concept of Higher Pleasures was something I was introduced to my freshman year of college and for some reason it really stuck with me. I don't know if it's because I'm very mature for my age or often see things through a different set of eyes than most of my peers, either way, it made an impact and it's something I'd like everyone to think about.

"It is better to be a human being dissatisfied than a pig satisfied; better to be Socrates dissatisfied than a fool satisfied. And if the fool, or the pig, are a different opinion, it is because they only know their own side of the question. The other party to the comparison knows both sides."

This quote says a lot to me. Above all, it speaks to the character of man. It emphasizes the importance of being knowledgeable about life, directly influencing your individual growth as a person. Some trials and tribulations are necessary to obtain higher pleasure. Getting to that point isn't always fun and it isn't always easy. Versus someone who never sets the bar high who is just reaping momentary pleasures. Yes, the latter is more gratifying presently, but it is the dissatisfied man who once satisfied can look back on his life knowing that times of unhappiness were essential to his higher pleasure, a happiness which the latter never reaches.

It is important that we not only take happiness away from momentary pleasures but work hard to gain the long term ones. Any person on this Earth could go out right now get drunk, have sex, do drugs, and feel instant gratification, but not every person in this world can say they've been proud of themselves, reached a goal, got an education, walked down the isle of a beautiful church toward someone they want to spend the rest of their lives with, or know the undying love that comes with having children. There comes a time when instant gratification can only provide so much happiness. Where as love, believing in yourself, and educating your mind knows no bounds. Can you say you are making decisions to lead the best life possible? A life full of endless gratification?

John Stuart Mills described Higher Pleasures as those pleasure that aren't measured by quantity but by quality. I'm not saying it's not ok to have both in your life but as the years tick by and as you grow old, I hope you can look back on your life and realize that you obtained higher pleasures-the things that make being a human worthwhile. If man only took pleasure in animalistic gratification then things like love and pride would not exist.

Intrinsic motivation is key to any respectable individual. Push yourself to be better, push yourself to want the 'better'.

UNK Communication Disorders Most Eligible Bachelorettes

It's Friday night, I find myself sitting at my computer with nothing but my Batman boxers and incredible push up bra on, sipping wine, and reflecting about my past week. My friend and I were talking the other day and it seems that everyone in our class and the second year graduates are either in a committed relationship or married. I know this seems strange but here in Kearney, being single (at least out of the people we spend most of our time with) makes you the minority. So I decided to make a little "Kearney's Most Eligible Bachelorette List".

Welcome to the hot list! You are about to dive deep into Communication Disorders most eligible bachelorettes. From the farmers daughter to the Husker football fan this list of ladies has got it all!

Our first bachelorette comes from the great town of Greeley Nebraska! She's a farm girl through and through but knows how to have city girl fun! She's blond, gorgeous, and loves to drink beer. Bachelorette number #1 is Autumn D!!

Don't let this pretty face fool you, this girl knows how to get her hands dirty! She is fun loving, intelligent, and hardworking! From Neurology tests to going home for harvest this girl works at it all!
She enjoys driving tractors,horses, and boys crazy! She might be a country girl but she's noticed by all the city boys! She's the girl you can bring home to mom or hang out with and watch football on Sunday! Autumn will make you [fall-haha get it like the season] that is why she is on 2011's most eligible Communication Disorders Bachelorette list!

Likes:

Beer,tractors,her dad, being a good friend, and caramel chocolates

Dislikes:

Neurology tests and research papers


This Nebraska born hottie loves to play volleyball and is a die hard Husker fan that would make any Nebraska boy weak in the knees! Bachelorette number#2 is Sarah B!!!!

She's sporty, beautiful, and likes to have fun! She has an impeccable sense of humor and is a staple to any good time! Hardworking, smart, and funny make Sarah a catch for any man!
She loves Husker football and the color red. She's the perfect girl to watch the game with and take out later to celebrate the win! She is down to Earth, real, and quite the touch down catch! All of these things make Sarah worthy to be on the list of Communication Disorders 2011 bachelorettes of the year!

Likes:

Husker Football,the color red,vodka,dancing(wheel chair stuntin'),being a good person,being a good friend,havin fun,and yoga pants/leggings.

Dislikes:

brown liquor...and that about does it.


The next lady on our list is loud, likes to have fun, and is a lover of animals! Let's hear it for bachelorette number#3 Jenny S!!!

Jenny is also a Nebraskan born hottie who is sporty and likes to play volleyball! She might come off crazy, hyper, and loud but underneath it all is a heart of gold! Ok, well a heart of gold surrounded by crazy hyperness, but that's one of the things that make this bachelorette such a catch! She is confident, says what she feels, and isn't embarrassed easily! She has wild side and any boy looking for a little spice to his life can appreciate that!
She's all about a good time but knows when to open up and be serious! She's the girl you can take the time to get to know but also the sexy stranger! If you are looking for a seductive temptress but the beautiful girl worth getting to know at the heart of it all then look no further than Communication Disorders 2011 most eligible bachelorette list!

Likes:

Animals,working out(getting insane),watching movies,and drawing pictures.

Dislikes:

stupid boys

Bachelorette#4 on our list may seem quiet but this little firecracker is the girl that's in demand! She loves to laugh, dance, be a part of only the most 'in' social events, and is kind and caring on top of it all! Bachelorette number#4 is Kendra P!!

Kendra hales from Oregon but there is nothing gloomy about this ball of sunshine! She has a big heart and big personality! She always dresses to impresses (even on her off days) and has a love for all things that sparkle! She is extremely determined and a very hard worker!
She likes to play just as hard as she works! Kendra is a good time either at a party with friends or at home having dinner! She loves to cook, bake, and craft! Your heart and stomach won't be disappointed if you land this hottie! You looking for a complete 10? Then full steam ahead towards this sailorette!

Likes:

The color pink, going to movies, alternative music, things that sparkle, having a good heart, and being loyal to the ones she loves.

Dislikes:

Fluency Disorders, getting up in the morning, and mean girls.

The last bachelorette on our list is the down to Earth girl next door who is a lover of everything old, Bachelorette number#5 is Katelyn C!!

Katelyn is a hot nerd who enjoys Star Wars, vinyl albums, and the Twilight Zone. She is determined, has an impeccable work ethic, but knows how to have fun! She is a nerd through and through but beauty shines through!
She's got great legs and can get a killer tan in the summer! This bronze goddess also looks great in a bikini! The best part about this bachelorette is her heart! She has such a big heart which is one of the reasons she's such a good catch! She's the girl you can take out to show off to your friends or the girl you can stay in with and have a debate about whether Luke and Leia really had a 'thing'. Kate is the perfect combination of sexy and cute which makes her a candidate for Communication Disorders 2011 most eligible bachelorette list!

Likes:

Anything old,collecting vinyl,writing,reading, and Totinos pizzas.

Dislikes:

mean people, ill morals, neck tattoos on women, and attention whores.

Well there you have it all you single, good looking, mature men out there. You looking for a great girl? Well look no further! This was the list of some of Nebraska's most eligible young women! Take your time and browse! You might just discover your diamond in the rough!

The Dead are Walking

I haven't posted on the Walking Dead since the season premiere so I thought I'd catch everyone up on what has been happening in the show (plus my friend Erica asked me to:)

*SPOILER ALERTS*

Alright so a lot has happened since episode 1. The little girl is still missing but besides her being M.I.A. the only causalities thus far from Rick's group have been zombies. There has been a lot of zombie slayin' in the past few episodes. The group have also found themselves camped out on a nice little farm that dates back to the 1800's with an owner that talks sweet as honey, looks like Colonel Sanders, and can obviously preform medical miracles with little or no modern medical equipment.

Here are a few of my favorite events/twists/turns that have happened thus far-

1)Kid gets owned by a rifle. All I have to say about this is=wrong place at the wrong time and sometimes ya get the short end of the stick. One second the little boy is just admiring the beauty and life (something not seen very often in his eyes) of a beautiful deer and the next second he's laying on the ground with a grapefruit sized hole in him. Note to self-be careful around game of prey even if it's not hunting season.

2)They found refuge on a nice little farm. The dude who shot the deer and the kid indirectly lead a few members of the group back to this farm to save the kid's life. This is a beautiful little farm and they've got a nice set up. A Dr., I.V.'s, beds, running water, electricity--this place has got it all (even zombies locked in a big wooden barn-red flag? THINK SO). Colonel Sanders isn't too jazzed about hosting Rick's group long term, but we'll see how that pans out once the lives of the characters from both groups keep getting more intertwined.(By the way, his real name is Hershel)

3)The Wishing Well-Most people throw coins in to make a wish. Well this well doesn't have any coins but it sure has a zombie. This has been one of my favorite scenes from season 2. The 'let's get the zombie out of this well so that it doesn't contaminate our drinking water' scene. They don't want to shoot it because they are afraid it's blood/brains/etc. would further pollute the water. So they create this ingenious idea to lower Glenn down into the well to tie a rope around the zombie so they could just pull it out. I saw several holes in this plan before they did it but they obviously overlooked them. 1-The support beam holding the rope that Glenn is dangling from breaks mid dangle and he almost becomes zuppy (zombie/guppy) dinner. Some how he manages to loop the rope around the zombie and make it out without being bitten. Then they decide to pull this rather large and bloated dead thing out of the well. They get it to the top, it's half in, half out, and seems to be stuck on the lip of the well. They don't think to just pick up the things legs and then pull but decide to just keep pulling. Moral of the story the zombie splits in half and guts,zombie bits, blood, brown shit, and the lower half of the zombie's body all tumble right back into the well. It was probably the sickest scene all season and I'm glad they are upping the gory antics to keep their viewers on their feet!

4)SCHOOL'S OUT FOR THE SUMMER! SCHOOL'S OUT FOREVER!-The high school is out forever because it's infested with WALKERS! Otis and Shane go to this high school to get medical equipment to save Carl (the kid who was looking at the deer and got owned by Otis the man previously mentioned above). I knew from the second this poor chubby man volunteered to go with Shane on this dangerous mission that he wasn't coming back alive. They get the equipment, some how manage to get out, and are running back to the car in front of a GIANT herd of zombies. What does Shane do? Sorry fattie...BLAM SHOOTS HIM IN THE LEGGG!! The fat guy goes down but not without a fight. He tries to take Shane down but his struggles were in vain. Shane limps away to the car with the screams of his human sacrifice echoing in his mind. This show brings up a ton of ethical principles. Did Shane do the right thing (sacrificing Otis to save the little boy?) Should you make sacrifices that benefit the majority of the group? Definitely gives you stuff to think about. Either way, I love the darkness that is taking over this character and can't wait to see what other shitty things he does as the season progresses!5) RICK'S WIFE IS PREGNANT! I knew this since season 1. You want to know how I knew? At the end of season 1, during the finale', the lone scientist whispers something to Rick right before he runs out of the building..I figured out that what he told him was that his wife was pregnant. Want to know how I knew this? Lone scientist did blood tests on all the members of the group and the writers specifically put dialogue in that centered around Rick asking the scientist about the blood and the scientist with a mysterious look on his face said, "nope no surprises." Connect the dots people! So is it Shane's baby or is it Rick's baby conceived on the night of his return? I CAN'T WAIT until this shit pops off! 6)My favorite character of season 2 is Daryl Dixon. He's the bad guy with a heart of gold. A little rough around the edges but what a great heart. This man's a bad ass also. Hunts with a crossbow, was left in the wilderness to die after he fell off his horse, fought off zombies with an arrow stuck through his side, scaled a mountain, and made it back to camp only to dodge a bullet to the head! He is the unsung hero and I can't wait to see what the writers have lined up for his character. If he dies I'll be so heart broken. Like 'Charlie holding up his hand as he's running out of his lasts bits of air..not Penny's boat' heart broken!7)Tie for scariest Zombie of the season thus far goes to:

Weird Hippie Priest Zombie

and

Bloated Well Zombie

Well there ya have! There are most of the highlights from the past few episodes! Season 2 has been pretty crazy and I can't wait to see what happens next!

Some things I'd like answered in season 2
-Where is the little girl? (I think Daryl's brother has her)

-Is Daryl's brother still alive?

-Why is Colonel Sanders keeping a barn full of zombies?

-Is it Shane's baby or Rick's baby

If you haven't been watching this show I'd definitely peep it! And if you don't want to watch to get caught up..guess what? If you read this, now you are! Enjoy!

2011

Towards the end of each year I post a blog about that year and things I've learned about it. Sadly, we learn mostly through retrospect so here are the moments in 2011 that touched my heart, made me cry, made me smile, brought tears of joy, and taught me priceless lessons about myself and life.

School:

Last August I was starting my senior year at University of Wyoming. WOW-that seems so long ago. I was surviving the worst semester of my life (neuro+research methods). Now, I know that doesn't sound THAT bad but if you knew my research methods teacher, you'd know why my life was a living hell for a solid three months. I'd like to give a shout out to all MA GURRRLLLSS back in Laradise;) I miss you and YOU'RE ALMOST DONE JUST KEEP GOING! I was also applying to Graduate School this time last year! Spending all of my Christmas money, sending transcripts, and hopeful to the possibilities of new places to continue my education. First semester came and went and I found myself in spring break opening my letters from programs I applied to. I applied to 8 schools for a grad program. I got into (1). Needless to say, I was having a young life crisis. Questioning myself has a student, a professional, and really questioning my undying belief that all hard work pays off. I was upset, disappointed, confused, and most of all scared. I was then slapped with the harsh reality that I would soon be facing YET ANOTHER major life change. Moving, leaving friends, leaving my little home (my beautiful apartment), leaving everything I knew, and moving to a god forsaken land called Nebraska. Looking back on this moment of my life it was the second hardest I had experienced this year but it's turned out to be one of the biggest blessing I've ever been given in my life.

lesson learned:God knows what's best for you even if you don't. Blessings comes in all shapes and sizes (even disguises)

Family:

Everything has pretty much stayed the same at the ol' home front except for the fact that I seem to keep growing closer with my sister Tessa. This has also been an immense blessing this past year. She is growing up so fast and will turn 18 this year. I can't believe it! I promised myself I'd spend as much time with her as I could because soon she will be off experiencing college and growing into a beautiful young woman [and I know I'll miss her dearly during that time]. We do everything together when I'm home and living at home this summer was truly a blessing.

lesson learned:never take advantage of time spent with loved ones [ever]

Work: Yep, I had to move back home this summer. Most kids my age would be dreading this, but not me! I LOVED EVERY SECOND OF IT! My own room, my own bed, my family, and my dog. What more could a girl ask for?-Ok, so I had to get a job. You guessed it, throwback to high school-there I was working at the swimming pool. Now, I wasn't too stoked about this at first (because I had worked there for years and thought I'd never have to set foot back in that place as an employee) but really the pool saved my life this summer. I met and made friends with SO MANY WONDERFUL PEOPLE and had so many unforgettable memories! Those people touched my life and they will be a part of my heart forever. While I was going through a difficult time the only thing that made it better was that place. I want to give a shout out to all my guards from the SRC!! G4L!!! Love you all GP REUNION OVER CHRISTMAS!! Can't wait to see you all!
Lesson learned: live in the moment:) TAKE RISKS! and live outside of who you are.

Graduate School:
I honestly thought I was going to hate Nebraska. I thought I was going to be lonely and miserable just like my first year in Wyoming. I remember when I first moved here my Dad called and said, "Hey Kate, what are your pals up to today?" Well Dad, I don't know..maybe because I HAVE NONE hahah. I was like , "Who are these pals you speak of? Please let me know, cause I could sure use some!" No, I've made SO MANY wonderful friends here and have had so much fun right from the start. Nebraska has been wonderful and I love it here! School has taught me so much already and I've had so much hands on experience. I've touched people's lives through my work and because of that this has been the most rewarding part of the entire year. That is a priceless gift and I can't wait to do that for the rest of my life.

lesson learned:don't judge a state by it's color (people from Nebraska will get this joke haha never have I seen so much red IN MY LIFE). The most unlikely places can become home (because you make a home). Never take advantage of the chance to further your education-realize what a blessing it is.

Friends:

I've made so many wonderful friends this year (too many to mention) but I don't know where I'd be without them! I'm going to tell you about a few of my favorite new friends.

Kelly: Kelly is pretty much like me except more nerdy and a dude. I mean I'm pretty nerdy, but Kel takes the cake:) But that is why I love him. He came into my life just this year and I am so happy and THANKFUL that he did. He is my best friend (more like a brother to me) and has undeniably been someone who has gotten me through the most difficult parts of this year. We take about nerdy things like light sabers (red crystals are more powerful FYI), pick up lines including the word 'lexicon', and we give each other a ton of shit on a weekly basis (I tease him a lot more though..my bad bro:) I want to take this time to thank you for everything you've done for me...from watching me drunk cry/helping me not to barf on my shoes....to listening to my sober cry/helping me not barf my hamburger helper..this friendship is one for the books and anytime you need me just say the word and I'll be there:) I love you Kelly Harms! See you soon!

Ken: O lord, where do I start with my friend Ken. Kendra is from Oregon and I met her at orientation before our first week of school. I remember the first time I talked to Ken. We were in the downstairs computer lab at the library. From that moment on, it was friendship at first sight. Ken is the reason I have so much fun in grad school, my rock when I complain about said grad school, and someone who takes care of me. My Star Wars birthday party spectacular (one of the best birthdays I've ever had) would have never been possible without her and honestly, surviving grad school would never be possible without her. She is someone I can always go to for advice/support, and or if I need her to sew something hahaha. We'll be friends forever I'm sure of it. Bitch you better be ready for our Bachelorette parties...cause you and I both know THEY ARE GOING TO BE OFF THE CHAIN! I'll wear something sparkly and pink for you;) I want you to remember you are the best! You are so beautiful inside and out, fun, loud-haha, great to be around, and someone I could never imagine my life without! Don't ever settle!

Taylor and Reggie: These boys are my boyfriends. When I was having a hard time this summer they stepped in, adopted me, and decided that their powers combined made me the perfect boyfriend-and they were right:) They did so much for me this summer including taking me to the swing ditch when others wouldn't, taking me on a fun adventure of floating the river aka bobbing the river cause it was low that day haha), and gave me the best going away present/drunken party talks I've ever had. These were the boys that would txt me good night and good morning every day for months until I got better, the boys that were always there for me WHENEVER I needed it. Game nights, guard parties, roasting marsh mellows, and making fun of Kai while he played charades are only a few of the reasons why I love these boys! Thank you so much you two! You will always have such a special place in my heart and I've loved witnessing the accomplishments, love, and adventures you've had towards the end of this year! I can't wait to see what God has in store for such beautiful souls!

My Fleming Crew: O lord, where do I begin!? I'VE LOVED GETTING TO KNOW YOU ALL! Fleming became a second home to me this summer and I've had some of my favorite memories I've EVER created or will create out there. From peeing on cinder blocks behind the garage with Karlie, drinking Clay's hooch, having heart to hearts until 5 am with Fletcher in the garage, having the boys try to teach me how to play cribbage (while drunk), Bo beating me constantly in beer pong, Keysha snorting when she laughs, to (MY FAVORITE) SKINNY DIPPING FOR THE FIRST TIME IN SOME OLD DUDE'S POND hahahahah...Fleming and the people in it have become the loves of my life! I'll never forget any of you and you all better be gearing up for Christmas break!!:) p.s. we are def skinny dipping again. If I could swim naked all the time I would.

lesson learned:you can never have too many wonderful friends. They are the best part of your life so cherish them.

The last part of this blog is saved for the biggest/hardest lesson I've learned this year-----

Lyle: Falling in love and losing love have been the hardest lesson I've learned this year. It'd been a long time since I had the desire to date anyone, the desire to really get serious with anyone, and then he walked into my life. I'm going to take you back to the beginning (because after all this is what this blog is about-precious memories). I met Lyle (officially met/hung out with Lyle at a house party). He came with Kelly. Well, him and Kelly weren't doing too well on the beer pong table that night (they lost 5+ times in a row) so moral of the story -because of house rules- they had to run up and down the block naked (ok more like two blocks)-Guys sorry I'm telling the whole world this but it's hilarious. Needless to say, before I knew this boy's phone number I knew what his bare ass looked like. Did it sway me into agreeing into having my friend give him my phone number? Maybe...HAHAHA KIDDING. I didn't see Lyle for several months after this but then near Thanksgiving break I remember walking into a bar and seeing him and I don't know...something just clicked. I got butterflies, I couldn't breathe, and I just [knew] in that moment that I wanted to fall in love with this boy (and that's exactly what happened). We fell in love. On our first date he opened the car door for me and kissed me on my driveway(I made him kiss me behind my parents car so my Dad couldn't see if he looked out the window hahaha). I remember walking inside trying to play it cool, trying to hide this gigantic smile I had. My Dad stopped me in the hallway and just shakes his head and is like Kate, I like Lyle. He is a good guy. In my mind I was like wait, he opened the car door for me, he's a good kisser, and my Dad likes him HOW DID I GET SO LUCKY!? :) Unfortunately Lyle and I weren't able to hold on to this happiness. Our relationship for whatever reason, was during a very difficult time in both of our lives. I was freaking out about moving and grad school and he was freaking out about his career path and future. I think we both started focusing on these things more than each other. I don't think he was ready for the relationship that I wanted and because of it I started doubting whether he really loved me or wanted to be with me. I started pushing away because of it and instead of reaching for me, he started pushing also. Pretty soon we had both pushed so hard that we weren't standing beside each other any longer, we were standing apart. There are times when I held back a hug, or a kiss, or even an I love you because of this. I'm also not an overly affectionate person and I think some times I came off cold or indifferent when really I was just nervous or scared. For this I apologize. I apologize for being petty and letting my insecurities affect our relationship. In retrospect there are a lot of things I'd change if given another chance and lessons I've learned. I'd like to thank Lyle for loving me, if only for a little while, for letting me share a part in the lives of his amazing family, and helping my heart feel something again when it hadn't in a very long time.

lesson learned:fix your mistakes, apologize-if they love you for 'did' love you they'll listen with an open heart, and love someone like they're leaving. If I would've stuck to those rules, I'm sure I'd be in a different position than I am today. It's so hard missing someone who doesn't miss you back but you have to ask yourself why is it that they don't miss you? What type of person isn't worth missing?-Think about things, learn lessons, and make yourself better for the next time someone worth it comes along. I've also realized that even though you'd never give up on someone [the fact that they would or did] shows you that maybe you should be putting your faith into something or someone else.

Well there ya have it. My 2011 in a nutshell! Some bad times, some sad times, A LOT OF GOOD TIMES, A LOT OF FUN TIMES, and a lot of times of growth and change. There is a quote I love-"If nothing ever changed, then there would be no butterflies." Just because you are in the larva or cocoon stage, doesn't mean that you won't ever know what it's like to fly. Good things take time. Enjoy each stage for what it is, only then will you be able to fully appreciate what it is to soar.